Happy New You: 5 tips for resolutions that stick

The most common New Year's resolution is weight lose. (Stock Photo)

The most common New Year’s resolution is weight lose. (Stock Photo)

I’m a goal-setting junkie, so when New Year’s Eve rolls around, I get giddy as I pull out my pen and paper and start listing the things I’m going to do differently this year. With all of my hypothetical improvements contained neatly on paper, I feel better about myself already. So do the other 45 percent of Americans who make New Year’s resolutions. The problem is, only 8 percent of us actually achieve those goals, according to a University of Scranton study published earlier this month. Instead of ditching our resolutions a month into the new year like many Americans do, here are some tips to help you make goals you can actually keep.

1. Redefine resolutions

New Year’s resolutions don’t have to be a long list of strict goals to improve every area of your life. Instead of a laboriously long list of resolutions, limit your goals to a few simple, specific changes you’d like to make over the next month, then re-evaluate. Or, ditch the traditional resolution altogether and consider a theme for 2014. For example, I’m adapting a “live in the present” theme and letting that mantra influence my daily actions. For more New Year’s theme ideas, click here. 

2. Make realistic goals

It’s tempting to commit to drastic changes when the new year arrives. But it’s unrealistic to think you can break habits that have taken months or years to form just because of a date on the calendar. Instead of making goals that are far from where you are now, start by taking smaller steps towards those lofty goals. For example, if you want to start exercising regularly but you’ve never followed a consistent workout plan, start by exercising for 20 minutes a day three times a week. Chart your progress in a month and make a more challenging (but attainable) goal for the following month.

3. Be specific to see success

Ambiguity is a defining characteristic of failure-prone goals. Instead of making a general goal to eat healthier, take your goal-planning one step further with a list of specific things you will do to reach that goal, like eat five fruits and vegetables every day or limit your dessert intake to three times a week.

4. Track your progress

Write down your goals and put them in places you’ll see them every day like your bathroom mirror, your desk and the background of your phone. Take a moment at the end of every day to re-read your goals, consider your progress and any needed adjustments, and recommit to your goals.

5. Don’t give up

You’re going to slip up with your goals here and there, but the worst thing you can do is take the easy way out and ditch them altogether. Adjust and simplify them as needed. According to psychologist Lynn Bufka, PhD., setting small goals throughout the year instead of one overwhelming one on New Year’s is a recipe for success. “Remember, it is not the extent of the change that matters, but rather the act of recognizing that lifestyle change is important and working toward it, one step at a time,” Bufka said.


Top 10 New Year’s Resolutions for 2014

(According to a University of Scranton study)

1. Lose weight

2. Get organized

3. Spend less, save more

4. Enjoy life to the fullest

5. Stay fit and healthy

6. Learn something exciting

7. Quit smoking

8. Help others acheive their dreams

9. Fall in love

10. Spend more time with family



Kim calls Utah Valley home, but she spent her high school years in Australia, where she learned to drive on the other side of the road and tolerate Vegemite. Since earning an English degree at BYU, Kimberly has worked for Covenant Communications, Utah Valley Magazine, Daily Herald and Eat My Words. When she isn't writing, Kim loves traveling, teaching Pilates, and spending time with her husband and three children. Read more from Kim at talkingwordy.com.

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