County GOP will talk Ashley Madison allegations against Utah County commissioner

Ashley Madison is a dating website that's motto is "Life is short. Have an affair."

Ashley Madison is a website set up to facilitate affairs. The site was hacked and information was leaked last week, revealing its users.

Allegations surfaced this week that Utah County Commissioner Greg Graves was a user of Ashley Madison, a website for married people or those in committed relationships that facilitates affairs — its slogan is “Life is short. Have an affair.” But while some may think he should step down, removal from office isn’t an option.

Utah County Republican Party chairman Craig Frank said he’s gotten a number of phone calls about Graves since the news broke but there’s not much the party can do. Plus, “everything’s just an allegation at this point.”

The party’s constitution and bylaws allow for scrutiny of candidates running for office as Republicans, but once they gain office through an election the party can’t remove them, he said. Even so, the situation likely will be a topic at upcoming meetings (the executive committee meets on Sept. 3 and the central committee meets on Sept. 26.)

Utah County Commissioner Greg Graves allegedly had an account on Ashley Madison's site.

Utah County Commissioner Greg Graves allegedly had an account on Ashley Madison’s site.  (Photo courtesy

Utah law allows for elected officials to be removed from office for violating certain laws but there are no provisions for recall elections in the state.

Frank said he hasn’t spoken to Graves.

“The Utah County Republican Party expects the highest standards from their candidates and those who would propose to represent the party on any level,” Frank said. The party sets high standards in its platform and bylaws to give the electorate a good idea of whom they are electing.

On Tuesday, the local conservative blog revealed that Graves had used the website over a four-year period. A group announced it hacked the website last month, and last week revealed account details — including email addresses and credit card info — for the millions of people with accounts on the site.

Graves couldn’t be reached for comment Wednesday afternoon, but according to, he spent more than $500 on the site from 2010 to 2014 and had several accounts. He reportedly told the blog that the charges were to look at other profiles, and that he never had an affair. The site reports that one of his accounts was used on April 7, 2014, less than a week before he garnered the Republican Party nomination for county commissioner at the convention. He took office in January this year.

This isn’t the first time Graves has come under scrutiny. After he earned the nomination — and had no opponent in the general election — it came to light that he’d filed for bankruptcy twice and had a theft conviction. There was a proposal in June 2014 for the party’s central committee to take a vote of no confidence on his candidacy, but that was abandoned. He ended up having a write-in opponent, but still won the election.

According to his profile on, Graves is married and has three daughters.


Amie Rose has more than 14 years of experience writing and editing at newspapers in Utah and New Mexico. She graduated from BYU with a degree in journalism. She lives in Utah Valley with her husband, toddler and crazy dog.

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